Challenge the Common Wisdom
We tend to take the things that “everybody does” as being the accepted way of doing things. And that makes sense on one level, because those things are the accepted way of doing things in our world.
But that doesn’t mean that the things that everybody does are necessarily good ways of doing things. They’re just the ways we’ve gotten used to observing, hearing about, or experiencing.
As an extreme example, take someone who has been abused. In their world, many abusive behaviors seem “normal” to them, because that’s what they experience on a regular basis.
On a much less extreme note, take car payments. So many people buy cars on credit that most people think nothing of having a car payment. It’s “normal”.
But avoid having a car payment, and a whole new world opens up. When you’re not making payments, there are more opportunities available to you. When you’re not paying interest, you have more money. You also don’t get caught up in the completely unnecessary cycle of “my car’s paid off, time to buy a new one”.
There are many, many more areas where it pays to challenge the common wisdom. Maybe you’ll decide to step outside the common wisdom because you’ve found a way that works even better — even if not everyone is doing it.